“Waiting for your Soulmate” 🎤: Leslie Liao

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Finding Beauty in the Ordinary: When “The One” is Wonderfully Average 🌼

Introduction: The Myth of Perfection

In a world obsessed with the extraordinary, we’re often led to believe that “The One” must be a figure of grandeur, an embodiment of perfection. Yet, the truth is, beauty, love, and connection often manifest in wonderfully average, perfectly ordinary moments and people.

The Charm of the Average

What if “The One” is very average? What if they don’t have a grandiose career, aren’t adept at grand romantic gestures, or don’t fit the mold society champions as exceptional? The reality is that “The One” isn’t about extraordinary achievements or superficial benchmarks. It’s about finding someone whose average is your extraordinary, whose simplicity complements your complexity, and whose presence turns everyday moments into a lifetime of happiness.

The Depth of Normalcy

In the simplicity of the average, there lies a depth often overlooked. Meeting “The One” who is wonderfully average is about:

• Enjoying quiet evenings together as much as, if not more than, adventurous escapades.


• Finding joy in shared chores, grocery shopping, and simple home-cooked meals.

• Celebrating the beauty of routine, where comfort and understanding grow in the spaces between the mundane.

The Unlikely Romance of Realism

Romance doesn’t always stem from grand gestures or fairytale moments. More often, it’s built in the shared realism of life’s everyday occurrences:

• Laughing over inside jokes that wouldn’t make sense to anyone else.

• Supporting each other through the ups and downs of average life challenges.

• Finding someone who loves you for who you are, not for an idealized version of perfection.

Embracing the Wonderfully Ordinary

Embracing “The One” who is average means recognizing the extraordinary in the ordinary. It’s understanding that love doesn’t need a backdrop of dramatic events to be real. It’s seeing the beauty in someone who is real, grounded, and, above all, human.

Conclusion: The Extraordinary in the Average

The notion of “The One” being very average challenges the conventional fairy tales we’ve been told. It opens our eyes to the beauty of real, tangible love that thrives not in the peaks of extraordinary but in the valleys of the everyday. In the end, finding “The One” who is average isn’t settling for less—it’s recognizing that in love, the ordinary can be truly extraordinary.

This blog explores the beauty and depth found in the average, challenging the narrative that “The One” must fit an idealized mold and celebrating the extraordinary moments that come from shared, ordinary life.