Matthew Hussey’s 9 Magic Texts No Man Can Resist

9 MAGIC TEXTS NO MAN CAN RESIST
A SPECIAL REPORT BY MATTHEW HUSSEY

NY Times Bestselling Author of Get the Guy

Treat the following texts as a stock of arrows in your quiver.
When fired off, each text elicits a different response from a guy. Some are flirty, some show certainty & independence, others make you seem fun and intriguing, others create sexual desire.
They aren’t all designed for the same situation. Some work better with guys you just met whilst others work best with guys you’ve been dating for a little bit.
Whatever emotion each individual text is designed to trigger, all of them communicate that you are High Value. Here are your weapons. Enjoy!

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1. It is a good thing that we are colleagues / live far apart / just friends…you and I would be trouble.

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Mwahahaha. Welcome to the Romeo and Juliet play my friends. There is a reason you(?) nothing can happen between the two of you (even if it’s a completely silly one you just invented for the purpose of this message), which creates desire because it’s a way of telling someone they can’t do something: “I can’t?! Then BY GOD I WANT TO”.
AND using the word ‘trouble’ is exciting wouldn’t you agree? (“Trouble you say?! What does it mean? This sounds THRILLING”). Now you can sit back and allow allows someone’s imagination to do the work for you. Trouble is a delightfully charged word in the world of attraction.


WHEN HE ASKS YOU WHAT YOU’RE UP TO:
2.Just about to take a shower, heading out with friends in a bit. What are YOU doing?


(Warning: Do not use with someone who only just started messaging you or he may take this as a cue to get sexual too quickly).
Most people’s response to the “what are you up to” question (a particularly uninspired text question, I might add) is to answer it with some similarly listless text.
So when you send this to him – you’re putting an image in his head without being overtly sexual, which is ideal for sparking his interest. It’s said with a casual air but makes him think about you in a way that creates desire.
Also note the emphasis on the word ‘YOU’ to create some playfulness in the message when you fire the question back at him.


3. Latest purchase
(INSERT PICTURE MESSAGE OF YOU WEARING AN OUTFIT YOU JUST BOUGHT.)


Take a picture in the mirror of you in a new outfit you just bought (nothing sexual, just you looking cute) and send it to him with the above message.
It’s fun, it’s flirty, and instead of simply telling someone “I’m out shopping”, you’re showing them. It’s a great ‘pattern-break text’ if you have been in a constant written back and forth with someone. It’s visual, so it allows you to appeal to different senses.
The advantage of this message is that you’ve also given him a chance to respond with something flirtatious, which makes it a great message if your relationship with him is a little on the platonic side right now. It gives him a nice excuse to compliment you physically in a way that doesn’t seem out of the blue.


4. You should be here right now!


Send this when you are out somewhere fun with your friends, or simply doing something you think he would in enjoy e.g. out in nature on a hike, witnessing a beautiful view, seeing a performance.
Statements are powerful. This text is great because you aren’t even asking the guy to join you. You’ve simply shown that you are thinking about him in a fun moment (which is also an inbuilt compliment).
I love the initial ambiguity of this message. You haven’t actually said anything about where you are or what you are doing, which instantly builds intrigue and curiosity. You can always follow up a minute or two later by sending a picture of what you are looking at to show
him where you are (you don’t need to be in the picture). By the time you send it he may have already prompted this by asking where you are, but it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t.
It’s also a low-risk message from your side because you haven’t actually asked anything. You are simply putting yourself on his mind without requiring him to text back (which usually ends up having the opposite effect of making him want to message back because there’s
no pressure to).

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5. YOU: Just had the most life changing burger
HIM: LOL
YOU: Seriously, almost sexual.

Firstly, food is sex, isn’t it? I mean, anyone who has an appreciation for how amazing food is is sexual in my books. But enough of me.
Sending someone a message out of the blue to tell them something you just ate was ‘life- changing’ is funny. And when he sends something back and you double down on the joke by saying it was practically ‘sexual’, it becomes even funnier. But not just funny…
Alongside showing you have a great sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously, it also brings the word ‘sexual’ into a non-sexual context. This allows you to make him think of you as a sexual being but in the context of a very harmless conversation.
Think about it, if you told him you had a sexual dream about him last night…cue sexting from his side. You tell him a meal was sexual…it’s not really an opening for something crude, but still a great way to change up the plutonic language to show a different dimension of yourself.


6. This jacket would look hot on you.
(INSERT PICTURE MESSAGE OF HOT JACKET.)

God I love this message.
Here’s what to do. Take a picture of a jacket or a piece of clothing that you think would look attractive on him. Send it to him with the above message.
The ‘on you’ part of the message is a particularly potent compliment. You’re not simply saying it’s a hot jacket…you’re saying it would look especially hot ON HIM.
Also notice we are using the word ‘hot’ instead of ‘nice’, something that practically guarantees you’re not going to get ‘friend-zoned’ or labeled as the ‘nice’ girl.
Once again, you’re not actually asking anything, but he’ll want to respond regardless.

7. As handsome as you are, I don’t move that fast Take me on a date sometime this week Mr.

Some guys try to get overly sexual too quickly. Now I’m assuming here that he hasn’t done something truly disrespectful or in poor taste (run a mile from anything resembling a dick, in a…erm…pic).
But if you find you need to put the brakes on a little, this is an excellent way to do it. Calling someone ‘handsome’ is a nice redirect away from the sexual and towards the tasteful.
This is in contrast to certain other messages I’ve suggested previously where we are amping things up a little if things have become too friendly.
This instead tones it down, but in a warm manner that still gives him a chance to step up and do better.


8. I’m not sure we can be friends anymore…

Want to know what can create even more attraction than creating rapport? BREAKING RAPPORT.
Send this text as is, with no explanation, which of course makes him want to text back to find out why you can’t be friends anymore.
When he does text back, it can be for something totally playful: “I saw you diss the Harry Potter movies in your latest Instagram post. How dare you…”
Here you are playfully breaking rapport in a way that creates fun friction. And fun friction leads to heat. And heat leads to…ok you get it. Moving on.


9. You, Me, pizza, lord of the rings, tonight. Be there.


Ok so I’m now realizing I’ve used Harry Potter and Lord Of The Rings in two consecutive examples, so I’m overplaying my nerdy hand. You think you’re cooler than me?! You probably are. So insert whatever cool movie you’d prefer into this message you judgment jerk. Ahem
This one is NOT for a first date scenario. That just sounds like an early invite for sex. But if you’re already seeing someone, and have already seen each others places and perhaps been intimate, this is a really fun and assertive date request.
It’s playful. It’s direct. It’s certain. It’s attractive.
And what’s the worst that can happen? He doesn’t text back and you make other plans. Or he can’t make it happen on short notice and he asks you if you can meet the next night instead.
So there you have it. 9 texts that separate you from everyone else, charge your interactions with a different kind of exciting energy and create massive attraction with the guy you want.
Go go take a risk. Be different.
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